When the pain of things staying the same becomes greater than the fear of change… people will embrace change.
I have had the opportunity to work and serve in areas where people were cast aside due to behaviors and consequences. These people were no different than me… trying to make it through life in the best ways they knew how. They had the same feelings I had or feelings that I began to feel as I began to heal.
Blame, shame, and guilt keep many of us SILENT with nowhere to turn, but inside. The many people I have had the pleasure of working with and serving carry the feelings and behaviors of not good enough, people pleasing, lack of healthy boundaries, not liking themselves, numbness, disassociation and more.
The problem is they think they are alone. I was like them “alone” carrying a very painful unfolding of truth and reality about the life I was trying to build. The truth was, I was alone as I knew nobody who was going through what I was going through. Friends and some family tried to understand, but it was difficult for them and not the understanding I longed for and needed.
It was after I had completed a lot of counseling and isolation that my daughter wanted to do something to help others “Find Their Voice”. Coffee & Cocoa started and we only knew that we didn’t want others to think they were alone as we did.
The most amazing thing happened… we found people who understood. We spoke and people joined in sharing their stories and than the most beautiful thing happened… deeper healing!
When we find our voice and speak we find that the power of shame, blame, guilt loses and who we were created to be can begin to LIVE.
The TWC Clubhouse is a vision and a dream to see people around the world do what only we can if we are courageous enough to choose… heal together!
Heal themselves, heal their families, heal their workplaces, heal their communities.
We welcome you to our dream playground where we begin to give the love, compassion, and understanding to the person in the mirror and share with others who understand, love and support each other.
We can’t wait to meet you in the TWC Clubhouse Communities!
Much love and hugs!
The best is YET to come!
Denise aka Coffee